717 - Rob and Tia are Into Hotwifing, DP, DVPs, Multiple Guys and More

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You also get anonymous picks of all of my guests that I've had for the past three years. As long as I've had my Patreon up and running for the past couple years, I have had pictures of every woman that's been on my show. You could see anonymous hot picks of them are rated picks. But now you also get access to my Discord. That's where some X-rated stuff goes down. Mostly every one of my guests go in there, but everybody else on there is now posting stuff. So it's becoming like a community where people are like hooking up with each other. You get all of that shit that I just told you for only $5 a month. Go to patreon.com slash strictlyanonymouspodcast. Now the link and the phone number to my Confessions line and my website, all that information is in the description. So today I have on Rob and Tia. Oh my god, Rob and Tia are really hardcore. And they're hardcore. They were like it got or became hardcore right from the get go. They were both with other people, married to other people. And then they met each other like at drop off schools. Their kids went to school together. And then they just immediately started cheating on their partners with each other. And they were into hardcore things with each other right from the get go. Okay, I decided to tape them like I do some couples in that I had Rob come on first and tell the story. He's the first 30 minutes and then the second 30 minutes I had Tia come on and tell the same story from her perspective. And trust me, I mean, neither one of them disappoints. It's not like they retell anything. You just get the whole story from the both of them. It's such an interesting episode. Like I said, they were both with other people. I harped a little bit on that with Rob. Like I didn't realize that they were cheating. And they were like hardcore cheating on their partners. I mean, they started hooking up with other people and living out like their hot white cuck fantasies while they were still married. So all the details of that is pretty salacious. And then when Tia comes on, she explains a little bit more of the cheating scenario. And how it was kind of hot for her the fact that she was cheating. But like I said, they started out hardcore from the beginning. They were living out their hot white fantasies. Rob loves nothing more than to see Tia with another man. Tia loves nothing more than to fuck a different guy like every day. I mean, when she comes on and explains like what she's looking for, what she's not looking for, all the stuff that she's enjoys, it's like super interesting because she's kind of unique. This is not a woman that's looking to be friends with a guy or is looking for like a muscle head that's in perfect shape with a big dick. I'm not going to give it away what she's looking for, but you gotta listen because she is very unique in that sense. But Rob explains all their scenarios. Their first couple of hookups with solo guys and what exactly went down. They're reclaiming sex. How he was got into humiliation and his humiliation fantasies. He's a little bit of a cock. They have done some chastity play. And then he talks about their experience at a sex club and her being with a bunch of guys. And then their recent experience with three BBC's which ended with a DP. She's also done DV. And when she comes on, she gets into details of all those things. I mean, this is a woman, like I said, that just can't get enough of guys. She went from being in a very sexless marriage to really living out all her fantasies with Rob. And now she's not into him being with another woman. She's honest about that. But she loves nothing more than being with different guys. She loves that Rob is there and watches her. They do discuss their rules that they have, not many, but they have some. But she, she's into gangbang. She doesn't call them gangbangs, but she was once at a sex club. Six guys and she loved it. She loved just like one guy after another. She had a fantasy of DV. And that came about after Rob fisted her. And she talked about how she loved him festing her. And then she decided to try the DV. And she loved that. And then she needed to do the DP. And oh my god, she's super hardcore. She comes on second and goes through all the different things. She talks as well about the three BBC guys and when the gangbang that she did. And then she talks about the things that she wants in the future. The episode is super interesting. They sent me pictures. I have them over on my Patreon. They don't disappoint. They're going to be in my discord. You're going to want to talk to them. But anyway, I'm going to be right back on with Rob and Tia. Hi Rob and Tia. Well, Tia is going to be on next. Rob, you're going to come on first. How are you? Welcome to the strictly anonymous podcast. I'm very well. Thank you, Kathy. Thanks having a son. Yeah. I'm glad to have you guys on. What I'm going to do with you is what I typically do with couples where I'm going to interview you first. You're going to tell me your guys story. Rob, your Rob, your wife is Tia. You are a couple. Like the short story is you guys are a couple that got into the lifestyle about a year ago. And you've had a lot of crazy experiences, like pretty hardcore experiences that you're going to talk about. And then we're going to get Tia on the phone the second half hour. And I'm going to get the story from her. Okay. Oh, we leave the girl for last because everyone wants to hear the chick that loves sex, right? So we're going to get you're going to tell the story first. You're going to tee it up. And then Tia is going to come on. And we're going to hear this story from her. I'll probably have a million questions for Tia by the time I talk to you. So Rob, why don't you give me a little backstory on how long have you guys been married before a year ago? Oh, so we got married like after we started in the lifestyle. Oh, okay. Yeah, yeah. So we got married quite recently, actually. But well, how long were you together then? Forget about marriage. How long were you together? Okay. So we were both in other relationships and seeing each other separately and cheating on your other relationships. Yeah, that's right. Yeah. I could tell by the way you said it. So you're both in other relationships, not good relationships I'm assuming. And you guys, how do you guys meet? How do you guys meet? So we met at the school gates. So like you're your kids go to school. Oh my god, that's so fucking naughty. So you guys would see each other a drop off and pick up all the time? Exactly. And who made those pass at who? Like how did you guys start from just like saying hi to each other? Listen, I'm a mom. I do drop off and pick up. Like how do you, is it go for you guys just chatting it up randomly at those times to you guys having an affair? Yeah, just chatting randomly. I would say she made the first means. Really? Yeah, yeah, definitely. Okay, so how long were you guys having an affair for before you got divorced from your other partners and or left them? Probably only a few months, not that long. Okay, so like where were you banging? I love to know we're cheating sex typically happens in cars and back alleys. I mean, were were you guys getting hotels? Were you cheating? No, it's a typically in her house during the day. Oh my god, your husband wasn't home? Correct, yeah. So so we would meet up about weekly at her house, but we would also meet once a week in my car and sometimes that was just her giving me head. And other times we would have sex in the car. Okay, now when you guys were hooking up like just that way, you're still with other partners, were you talking about doing all these other kinds of things because all of this seemed to happen pretty quickly, right? You weren't together very long before you started hooking up with other people. Yeah, that's right. So we definitely talked about kind of sexual experiences that we would both like and she's really good at giving head. And so there was one time in particular where she was sucking me in the car and I said, good, this is incredible. You're amazing. Every guy should get this experience. And she stopped and looked at me and said, I'd like that and then carried on. And we were both just talking about that and it kind of snowballed from there really. Okay, but that was when you were still with your other partners. How did it snowball? What other stuff started coming up because you guys have done six strangers at a sex club, BBC guys all together, three of them at once, like gangbangs maybe. I mean, you got pretty hard course. So what came next after it was just like her being with another guy? I mean, this is fantasy talk at first, right? Yes, it's fancy talk about, so just enabled very quickly from me. So it's just having another guy to then having like groups of guys to then her letting multiple guys kind of come in her and on her and just be the center of attention. And we both just got really riled up by it and loved the idea. It was really horny, really hot. And so she started a Reddit account that we both had access to and she would post pictures of herself and chat with some of the guys on there. And sometimes I would chat with them sort of as her. And so we both just engaged in that process. But the vast majority of people, I don't know if it was a time of day that she was posting, but we're here in the UK and the majority of guys would be in the States. And we just thought it is hot that it's not going to go anywhere. So we opened up a FAB swingers account. FAB, FAB, FAB, yeah. So I think it's a bit like FET life. I've listened to other people on your show. It's kind of a swingers website. So we'd started an account on that. And within a fortnight, we had arranged our first meet. Now, wait, three or four months after you guys hooking up, you guys both left your significant others, correct? Exactly. And did this start even before you left your partners? Yeah, before. Okay. So you start putting out as what kind of ad did you put out? What did you say you were looking for? We just said that we were looking for a single guy to come around and have sex with tier whilst I watched and filmed. How many hits did you get when you put that out? Oh, loads, loads and loads and loads. Right. Yeah, you just get, it's a website that you almost need an assistant to manage. Yeah. You just get a ridiculous amount of emails and people liking your pictures and trying to start conversations. So it can be quite all-consuming. Right. I'll ask Tia what she was looking for in the guys. I mean, were there, was there any preference for you as far as what you were looking for with the guy, the guy that you guys were going to bring in? Not really. Just someone who seemed genuine. Somebody didn't seem like they were going to be a time waste. Once it's actually happened, not just have someone kind of counsel at the last minute. But I mean, I know that you started out just saying, oh, like I'd love to see you suck somebody else's dick while because you do it so good. But you were looking for this to have sex with somebody else and for you to watch it, correct? Yeah, definitely. Now, had you ever had any like hot wife fantasies before or this was all new to you that this is something you'd be too? Definitely, I've always found women with a high sex drive really attractive. And I've always all of my life that I've watched porn. It's always been kind of group scenarios or whether it's been multiple guys with one woman or just like always like the idea of women who have large appetites. Right. So you but you had never found one and once you did, you were like, let's go live at all my fantasies that I saw. Like, I mean, because listen, there's one thing of just fantasizing about it or seeing if there's another thing when it's with the person that you're with. But maybe it's easier when you start off at this place than when you're with someone for a very long time because I don't know. Were you guys in love at this point? I mean, it's only three months in probably not with just fucking fun sex, right? That you're having? No, I think there were really strong emotions there really quickly. Right. I know that we talked about it earlier, like maybe a month in to see each other. Maybe it's being a possibility. She wasn't keen because she didn't feel that we were very secure. Yeah, yeah, yeah. But what she did feel more secure with our relationships, she was like, yeah, let's do it. Okay. Okay. So let's just, I mean, this timeline probably doesn't really matter. I like those details because it's interesting to me that it just seems like it happened so fast. You know, when you guys at kids and houses and other people and you know, in the midst of all of that, you guys are like, you know, managing a swingers app and navigating through all those ads just to go get a quickie, which is funny. Yeah, we're both quite impulsive and obviously move quickly. Yeah, yeah, yeah, that's okay. You made your match finally. How long were you married for? About 15 years. All right. So tell me about that first guy, that first experience. So I first took up with a plumber. He turned up on time. We went upstairs. Tear was already ready in lingerie and he just took his clothes off straight away and started kissing her and started touching her and then they just started having sex and they had sex for maybe 45 minutes. It wasn't a particularly long time, but just moved through a variety of different positions. And then he came, they used to condom and then as soon as he was done, I was like, my turn. And then so she and I just started having sex and he was like, thanks guys. So you were there watching. How was that for you? Yeah. Oh, incredibly hot. Incredibly hot. When you say she went upstairs, where were you in a hotel? No, in her house. While her husband's still there, did he move out at this point? No, no, he was just a work. Oh my God. They were still married. I can't wait to talk to Tia. She's fucking naughty. She's still married and she's not only having sex with another guy. She's also bringing another guy in and having a hot wife experience in her own house while her husband's away. Oh my goodness. Okay. Yeah. So how was that first experience seeing her with another guy for you? It was really, really, really hot. Right. I had no kind of jitters or second thoughts or any mixed feelings about it at all. It was just incredibly hot. Right. Okay. I had a huge smile on my face. It was wonderful to watch. It was like watching my partner be a punster. It was amazing. Yeah. Yeah. That's what everybody says. And then the reclaiming sex was great when after he left. Absolutely. Yeah. Really, really hot. Okay. Keep going through your experiences because I'll get more of the backstory from Tia when I talk to her. So then we had another meet with a guy about a fortnight later. It was in a hotel. That was pretty good as well. And that time as I was a bit more involved. So it was more of a freestime. So like she would suck me while he was fucking her and we would switch places. Or she would kneel in between us and take it in turns to kind of suck us both. And then again, I would say most of our meets have been reasonably sure in that the sex has probably been for about an hour and then they've left and then we've carried on afterwards. So we saw him. And then I would say about a month later was we had another meet at her house. But that that was the first time that she had sex with a black guy. And that was really that was like the next level for me to see because I've always enjoyed that type of porn. And he was significantly bigger than the two previous guys. And he made her squirt. So that was just incredible to see as well. And then we saw another we saw another guy twice. So one of our rules is that we don't tend to see people over and over again. Okay, that's interesting. And we only ever kind of arrange meets and we're both there. She never goes off and see someone independently. Okay, so never so low. That's two of your rules. Yeah, but I would say that's more or less it really. So we saw a guy the first time and it was supposed to be she wanted DVP. But it was the first time that we'd gone to someone else's house that hadn't been either our place or neutral. And so I struggled to perform. So we did see him about a fortnight later for a second go because it would feel more relaxed and more comfortable. And so we did manage DVP the second time. And that was amazing. That was amazing. Now have you guys left your partners at this point yet? Yeah, yeah. We both left. Okay, are you living together now? You're together now and married? Yeah, we're together and married now. In the same house. Yes. Right. Okay, so go on. So now you do the DVP. She's living at all her fantasies. Now let me ask you this because some cocks are very extreme. Some you wouldn't even call cocks and we're like a stag. Some guys are interested and a little guy on guy action. Some guys totally aren't. Where do you fall on that spectrum? I would say that I am straight but potentially curious. So we have talked about the idea of having a buy meet that hasn't happened yet. Okay, but you might be open to that in the future. Like maybe doing all this has made you think that you would be open to that down the line. Yeah, possibly, possibly. I think I wouldn't say no never. Yeah. But it hasn't happened yet. And I think there's plenty of things for us to do before that point. But we have recently been experimenting with a bit of chastity. Okay, so that's a little bit of like you get into a little bit of that extreme cook thing. That's where chastity gets comes into play for sure, right? Yeah, absolutely. So a bit more of little female dominance denial and maybe we haven't done it in a meet yet but some of that kind of more humiliation play. Like I don't mind the idea of that. That is quite erotic, I think. And what would what's that what's that humiliation play fantasy for you? So I suppose that would be kind of verbal teasing. So if she was sort of saying, oh, don't you wish you could fuck me to. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Or you're locked up those sorts of things. While you're there watching kind of thing. Exactly. Yeah, yeah, yeah, that's a little bit of, I think like everyone falls somewhere on the spectrum, right? I've talked to some very extreme cocks and then some people are slightly extreme, right? You're a little bit of a cock. It's not that hardcore. I don't think you ever want to get that hardcore because that's when you fall into some problems, right? The cock that is staying home and is in denial. I love that you guys don't play solo that you don't see people more than once. That helps from bad things happening. That's a lot of times it's solo play and seeing someone all the time. And then when you get into using home and no more reclaiming sex, it's just a recipe for disaster. Yeah, I agree completely. I mean, I think we have relaxed a rule a bit in terms of seeing people more than once. Yeah, but you're always there. Yeah, I'm always there. And in terms of seeing people more than once, we've seen one guy twice. But that was because we had a specific thing that we wanted to do, which was a DVP. Right. And other people we would see more than once if there's like a geography sort of barrier. So when we saw, I'll come on to that when we met with three BBC guys. Yeah. But we are seeing them again and another guy soon. But they're not from the same kind of part of the country. So it's not there's no problem. I don't want to do anything that kind of would risk our relationship. Yeah, listen, in the times that I've heard that it has risks ruin the relationship, there were other things in play as well. It wasn't just, oh, they saw the people a couple times and boom, the girl fell for somebody else because really it was that there were issues to begin within the relationship and the reclaiming sex wasn't happening. So there was a lack of intimacy with each other. It sounds like you guys just fucking met. You finally both maybe met your match and the person that you guys were always supposed to be with you, right? I mean, you're having the best time of your life. I, I don't think that you guys are in that same position. Exactly. For us, this is a fun kind of enhancement. Yeah. We have just an amazing connection with each other, amazing chemistry, amazing connection. Yeah, it's just, it's wonderful. This is just a cherry on top really. And it's fun. That's what it is. It's fun. Exactly. Now, do you want to get to the three BBC's or talk about that sex club experience? When did you start going to that? Yeah, sure. Yeah. So the sex club was whilst we were on holiday. So we went to an island on holiday, kind of just for a bit of winter sun. And whilst we were there, or before we went, I knew that there was a sex club in the town that we were going to. Because it was, you can on on fab swing as you can see where there are sex clubs. Yeah. So we knew there was a sex club and we thought, oh, maybe we'll go, maybe we'll go, you know, no pressure, we don't, no expectations. And just go and see what it's like. So we did end up going. And we got there and it was completely empty. And we were like, oh, no, it's going to be rubbish. And then there were a few kind of guys that came in that they were kind of older and, you know, had a bit of bit of kind of middle-aged spread and just didn't look like they were kind of, they weren't of a caliber that I would normally choose for theatre to have sex with. But it started to fill up and it got a bit more fun. We had a drink and relaxed. And then we went through into this kind of playroom that had a curtain for a door and small kind of holes in the, not like kind of glory hull holes, small kind of like viewing type windows. So people could peek through and they could open a curtain and ask if you want, if they could join. And that was really, really hot. It was really quite dark. And normally I like to film our meets. But one of the rules of the sex club was there was no photography. You couldn't have your mobile phone on you. You couldn't film. You can do anything like that. And whilst I do enjoy filming, there was something I felt more present because I wasn't able to. I was just able to experience it. And that really meant that I was kind of laid on the bed next to her as guy after guy came in. Very often they had minimal English and they would just say, can I, can I play? And I'd say yes. And she'd say yes. And then they would kiss or she would suck them and then they would start fucking. And then when he finished, someone else was immediately there and ready to go. And that was just incredibly hot, incredibly hot. And yeah, she had six guys one after the other. And then one of the guys was really into her. So he, I think it was a second guy, he fucked her. He like was really going for it. And then when he'd finished, someone else came in. But then he came back at the end and was like, can I go again? What your partner's amazing? Can I go again? Yeah. And they started having sex again. And then when he was done the second time, so it was six guys, but kind of seven fucks if you like. And then I reclaimed there and then we left a club after that and then walked home. And then we had sex maybe twice more that night before we fell asleep and then woke up and had sex and have a couple of times a following day. It just really kind of turbo charges our libido. It's really, really hot. Yes, what everybody says for sure. And then did the three BBC guys came after that experience? Oh, that's good. I see what you don't see and that's blue. That's easy. And then there's also another one. Lade Ultra schnell an schon über 1,700 Aral Pals Lade punkten entdecke jetzt den test siger von Koneck mit dem besten Lade netz Deutschlands. Willkommen bei Aral Pals. Mehr Informationen zum Koneck test auf Aral Pals.de Yeah, so the three BBC guys were there was only about a month ago actually. So we got married back in the summer and we I'd said to her, would you like because she's always kind of wanted kind of like groups of guys and obviously the experience in the sex club was great but that they all use condoms and we prefer condom free play if we're honest. She loves cream pies. I like to reclaim her when she's got a pussy full of calm. So we wanted to kind of set up more meats and have more experiences that were similar to that but with people that we'd vetted, that we felt secure with, where they provided clear STI tests and stuff. And the guy that kind of I spoke to that arranged that we'd been talking for months and months and months. We'd arranged a couple of dates and we'd had to cancel due to illness and he was always really really kind of cool and just not pressured and accepting of we've got busy lives and other stuff going on. So we did. So I kind of had it in the back of my mind that we still hadn't arranged that meat and what we wanted to. And so I said to her, how would you like that as a wedding present and so it's it'll be after we get married and if you if you like you could wear your wedding dress. Oh my goodness. And so that's what happened. Yeah. So we met them in a hotel about a month after we got married and she wore her wedding dress and they fucked her really well for a couple of hours and they did DVP. She did her very first DP and in the month between us getting married and the meat. She didn't let me fuck her ass. Oh, she's saving you for them. Exactly. So when the meat came around and then she did DP and just stand alone A or two. It was the first time she'd been fucked in the ass since we got married and that was really hot on a kind of emotional level too. Right and for you there's a little bit of that humiliation because you weren't allowed but they were maybe. Yeah. Yeah, that was hot. Uh-huh. Yeah, there you go. I mean, should we get Tia on to give her side of the story now? Oh my god. Tia's hardcore. I want to talk to Tia. I need to talk to Tia. Tia on the phone. Thank you Rob. Thank you. Thank you for Tia and her up. You're welcome. You really met your match. Hello. Hi Tia. Hi. Oh my god, you are so hardcore. I don't know. You heard the whole conversation right with Rob. I got a little bit of the backstory. You sound young. How old are you guys? Do you mind me asking? Well, I'm in my early 30s and Rob is in his early 40s. Okay, cool. So now you were, how long were you married before you met Rob and ditched your husband? I mean, technically married for five years that we've been together for 12. Okay. And you were obviously not happy in that marriage. No, no, I was really miserable to be honest, but we got together and we were like teenagers. Yeah. We had children and sex was just awful. It was terrible. I remember grieving the loss of sex early on in my relationship with my ex-husband. And I just accepted that and it just all changed and I met Rob. Yes, so wait. So you guys are a drop off and you see this guy and now you're like, you guys are just talking, but you just felt like instant connection with him? Instant. I didn't know. I just couldn't stop thinking about him. Oh my god. And did you look for a wedding ring? Or were you like, is this guy married? Is he not? Because you never know, you know what I mean? Yeah, no, I think it's going of wedding ring and I just can stop thinking about him. And I felt really guilty that I had a huge life. I've got had a really big crush on him because I was married. Yeah. And I just thought, I just had to get out my system. Why don't you just get him to have sex with me just once? That's what I mean. Then I can just move on from this because I'm going crazy. Right. You figure you'll do that and then the urge will go away kind of thing. Right. Yeah. Yeah. That's funny. Yeah, that's funny. I mean, we all just to find that I could totally understand that thought. So, so you started flirting with him. He made a pass and then you started cheating now. Did you ever look back after you started looking up with Rob and you're still married to your husband? Did you feel guilty? Maybe he's the right word, right? I mean, I felt a little bit guilty that I wasn't, you know, because we had children, we've children together and I felt guilty in that sense, but I felt more anger and resentment towards him that he, I feel like he trapped me basically. And so I didn't feel guilty to him. I just felt guilty that I don't want to be in the family anymore. Right. And you knew you had to like get out. What I think was really funny and crazy about your story is this. So you haven't even left your guy yet. You start with Rob and you guys are pretty hard core from the get go. It sounds like you live that you started to really live out all your fantasies right away because you're probably pent up in that relationship of yours, right? No, sex. You had all these horny thoughts because you are a pretty hard core. But then what I think is crazy is that you are bringing Rob and these other guys into your house. You really fucking hated your husband. I can't explain just how bad to sex. No, but I mean, you said, listen, I felt like you had trapped me. I mean, you must have had a lot of hidden resentment and stuff and not to say that it was all his fault, right? I mean, you both, you have to take accountability for that and everything in this in your past and whatever. But I'm just saying that only a woman that really fucking hated her husband would bring the guys in into his bed while he's at work. I mean, it's so bad. Yeah, it's true. It's true. I guess I really did. I did hate him. Yeah, it kind of got kind of go up for it. Like it was really hot to do that when he was at work. That's very honest. Yeah, it was thrilling. Yeah, yeah, yeah. But I think that you have to and this is why I'm asking you because it makes more sense that you were at that point zero feelings for him. And if anything, just some resentment there because I think if it was different, you might have not been able to do that. It's kind of crazy. So, and yeah, and unfortunately, and unfortunately, and I said this with Rob, like cheating sex a lot of times is like very highly charged because it is naughty. And when you add in that for you, like you just said, doing it in your house, in your husband's bed, oh my goodness, it just made it even hotter to you. Yeah, it was incredible. It was crazy. Okay. And so now it's the case thing, like you can't stop. You want more of it. Right. So that thought of, oh, let me just bang this guy and it'll get out of my system and I could go back to my terrible marriage. It didn't come true. We didn't know. I'm just so I'm so so obsessed with them. Like it's like a woke up and like to my sexuality and my and to wanting it, wanting to have sex. I hadn't wanted to have sex and so love. Yeah. And then Rob says to you one day when you're blowing him, like he said, like he said, oh, I'd love to see you do that to somebody else. And you're like, I'd be totally into that. Had you had fantasies about doing all these kinds of wild things before? To be honest, I hadn't really. All I wanted, I just wanted everything. Like I wanted. I wanted to just feel everything and experience everything. And I just, it's like just being really hungry. It is, it's fancy, isn't it? You just have all that attention and to be like so desired and yeah, it's amazing. Sort of you said that you guys like put ads online and stuff and you got a lot of heads. What was it that you were looking for in the guys that that you were going to hook up with? To be honest, I don't really want to know what they look like before the actual meetup. I don't know. I don't care what they're called. Yeah, I don't care what they look like. I don't, I don't, I just trust that Rob's going to get decent guys. Guys that aren't going to be like gross or something. I suppose in just being uncomfortable to be around just there to do there to fuck and then to go kind of thing or there to make friends kind of thing. I just want to be fucked. But I prefer not knowing. So that's interesting. So he's really the person looking through the ads and doing all the picking and you trust him to pick someone. But you don't really have anything that you're specifically looking for. No, no, I don't, no, nothing in particular. I don't, I don't care what they're like. Oh my god, I love you even more. You're so specific and it's interesting. Everyone's different, right? That's why I love talking in different people. It could sound like the same story, but it's really not. A lot of couples really want to make friends and need that conversation before and after. And some fucking dough, you're like, you're like, you're like, I don't even care what they look like. Just don't be gross. And I do your job and leave. Literally, I like the surprise and not knowing like every month is different as well as how am I going to be fucked today? Well, Dex going to be like, I don't know. And it's really, it's just really fun trying everything. Yeah. So a little bit of that surprise adds to it for you even, right? Well, it does. Yeah. I like, I don't even remember what most of them look like. Or I just, it doesn't, once they're done, I've got what I wanted out of them. Yeah, yeah. They can just get disposable to me, I suppose, in a sense. Yeah, I don't have the time or I've talked to all these, I don't, I'm going to have time for this. I just want to be fucked. Yeah, I love it. So wait, so that first guy, I mean, this was the first time you went from being like a housewife in a long term relationship, married since you're in fucking high school. And now you're like banging. I mean, forget about the fact that you're doing this while you're married. Okay, I'll stop harping on that. But now you're for the first time like banging another guy right in front of your guy, right? Because you're with Rob at this point. And you're having sex with another guy. Well, he's watching. What was that like for you? I was a bit nervous, I suppose, at first time, because just worried, like, it's just going to change the dynamic. Is he going to look at me differently? Because I've had sex with another man, but I don't know, I guess still in that part, it was kind of like he, I'm not like, yeah, it's been a lot, there's room for risk. It doesn't matter if it like, all collapses, I suppose, but it didn't, it did feel like a bit of a risk, but it worked out well, fine, the way probably looked at me afterwards. And when he would claim me just so hot, I felt so sexy. And so desirable. It was, yeah, it just, thankfully, it was perfect. It went better than I expected. And it's, yeah, he's not going to get jealous or he is being honest when he says, this is, this would be hot. Like, he's not going to change his mind. He didn't change his mind. He's like, yeah, that was really hot. And when he would claim me, it was really hot. Then after that, I was like, let's do this again. Let's do this more. Oh my God. And then you're like, TV, I want to take the side of me in the DVP. Oh my God. I mean, now tell your story. Yeah. DVP is the best. Oh my God. Like, it feels so good. So I didn't know I could do take that much, I suppose, but when we're having sex ones, Rob, fisted me. He ended up fisting me. And it was the first time I ever experienced that. And the feeling of feeling so full. Right. And you're kind of vulnerable. But it just, it was so strong like that pleasure. Yeah. So I knew I could do take two dicks at the same time. If you could take his first. Yeah. I can take it first. Yeah. So I knew I could be fucked by a guy. He wants to, he's enjoying you, but to be two at the same time, it really was as good as I hope to be. I love that. I do all the time. Yeah. I know that's an interesting thing, especially because for you, it seems like that a lot of the pleasure for you is having men desire you. So what's more, what's better than one man desire in you too at the exact same time? I mean, come on. Yeah. I just, it, I really enjoy sex. Sex feels, I can, I've do all day if I could. Right. Right. Right. That just, I just want more like, why stop at one? Why stop at two? Yeah. Just keep going. I can go all night. So that first time you had the dv, you loved it, right? And then were you the one that wanted to go to the sex club? How many guys did you do when you were there? Like, how was that sex club experience for you? The sex club was insane. It was, it was so hot. So we didn't go in like thinking, we're definitely going to do anything. Yeah. Perhaps we might just watch and stuff, but I didn't want to, I was like, oh, yeah, I want to try, but I was so hot lying on that bed with the queue of guys. That is my, that's my fancy. That is it. I want that again. I want like a queue of 10 or more, just waiting to fuck me. That might be, it would be amazing. I mean, would you call this? I don't want to, I just want to, I don't know how to describe it. Just not all at one two guys at the same time. Then waiting in line one at a time, that's really appealing to me and to be fucked and then, to be fucked again and then again, but not so much. I mean, I really enjoy gang gangs because you do get to be fucked by more of the one guy, but you're fucking two guys at the same time or three guys, but with a queue of guys, it's just one at a time and it's just yeah, I think that's a gang thing too. I think that that's a gang thing. Sorry to say. I mean, I don't know what, I don't know. I don't hear the difference. I think your difference is that sometimes during a gang being like your spit roasting or blowing a guy, but a lot of time, I think if you're like laying there in a bed and you like, what did you do six guys that time in the sex club? Six different guys. Yeah. And then one guy came around again. Yeah, came back again. And then after that, I thought, yeah, I could stop here and because I wanted to have sex Rob, I don't want to get like too tied out. It was because it was just like your adrenaline's going and the excitement and yeah, I didn't want it to, I didn't want to wear myself out too much. So I did stop with that, but afterwards I was like, I wish I kept going. I could have gone for more. Tell me about that, you know, how you wound up doing your first DVP. And it was with those three guys, right? Yeah, the DP. That was my first time. Oh, the DP, you're right. Sorry, DP. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. So I wanted to know what that felt like because we've had we had anal sex before and it did feel really good. And I've really liked the feeling, especially when I've got like, attention on my clear as well. It feels, it feels amazing. But I wanted to know what that would feel like. And so we've spoken about it and stuff. And I was like, yeah, that's something I'd really like to try. And although, yeah, so we waited till that, that me, I didn't know what they're going to look like or anything beforehand and what they were even like, but I was going to take two of these decks at the same time. But they were really nice and they really fucked me hard. But like when you're really turned on, it's not really a struggle, I think, to take big decks. And it was really good. And yeah, it really felt so full. And it was amazing. Was Rob involved in the DP or was it just with the guys that were there and he was watching? Yeah. So he was watching. I mean, I had like anal sex like a few times. I think once was a DP, he watched all of it. And it's so hot being what it feels, it turns me on so much that he's watching me be fucked. And by the guys and so now he was watching me receive DP that it was incredible. And I don't know, it's just, it's incredible. And now do you get into him being caged and him being denied? Because he did say that during that time, you had denied him anal as well up into the point where you met those guys, correct? Yeah. So I enjoy anal sex, but I knew that the reclaiming would be even better and to make him wait for it to reclaim me, it would just be, I just knew it built on that intensity. So yeah, I did make him wait for that. And I'm really glad I did because it was really good. But is that waiting and that denying him? It's really hot. I feel so powerful. And it's like, I'm really in control. And it's quite addictive, to be honest. Yeah, because they were like, you're in the dominant position, right? And he's a submissive. And for you is at the first time you've realized that you can be a dumb and dumbing a guy like you actually enjoy it. Yeah. Yeah. I mean, I love to be dominated, but to dominate is incredible as well. I'm really enjoyed making him make me calm. And he can't, I can't even get an erection. So we did, we had sex while he was wearing a cage and it was so good. So I was so relaxed. And I was like, do this for me. I want this. And he'd do it. And there's that teasing him. And it was really fun. Yeah, you like that. And now I know that he talked about in the future, you know, maybe he would be open to doing some guy and guy stuff. Is that something that would turn you on? Yeah. So just with like gangbangs, it's so hot when being fucked by another guy. And he's there as well. It just it heightens it. So even if it's when he's like touching me or kissing me or from sucking him off, but just his more involvement, I think is only a good thing. It's just like his shared experience then. Right. Both have. Now, what about you with women? Are you open to trying that out as well? Besides him, maybe trying out being with a guy? So before I met my ex-husband, I had stuck with other girls. And I did think for most of my teenage years that I was gay, so now I'm bisexual. But when it comes to other women, I don't, I'm not keen on the idea of other women being involved in the sex because it takes away the attention from me. And I'd, yeah, that makes me feel bad and comfortable. And that sounds really hypocritical for me because all your people are going to go mental. Yeah, people are going to go mental on you at YouTube on YouTube comments. But who cares? If Robin doesn't care and you don't care, and that's the way you roll when you're being honest, too bad everybody else, like that's what works for you guys. Yeah. I think it's important for you to be honest about that. I don't think that people should twist themselves into pretzels, just to make somebody else happy. If you're not comfortable with that and you know that that is something that you're not down with, then you couldn't handle. You got to respect that. He knew right off the bat that this was something that he wanted and he would be okay within and he is and it's working for the both of you. So that's, that's okay. I think the problems occur when you don't pay attention to how you feel about things. So if that's where you're at, that's where you're at. I mean, it's so obvious that you are the type of person that really enjoys all the attention. People would say it's selfish whenever, but you're very focused on that. And a big part of all of this is about you getting all the attention and everything. So if you think about it, him being with other women would be, it wouldn't be that thing for you. That's that that's what this is for you. It's about the that all the attention being on you and you love that. So yeah, it would it would take away from that. It would, yeah. I mean, I know you should say, never say never, but with this. I'm like, oh, I can't imagine I'll change my mind on that. I just want to keep myself and make him watch me fuck other guys. I guess. Uh-huh. No, does it ever come up with him though that he cares about whether he would be with another woman or is he totally fine with not being with another woman? I believe he's fine. We're not famous with another woman. I mean, I've made it I've been honest about how I would feel, I would feel jealous and insecure even, but he said he's not interested in other women. And he's just, yeah, so it's his variety this way. That's what I try to tell people on YouTube. Like when they make comments, there's a lot of women who do this and they're not interested in it being the opposite and it's what works in their relationships. And I've talked to a lot of guys like Rob, right? I just spoke with him before, but I spoke to a lot of guys that dig this and a lot of times they don't care about being with other women themselves. If they did, they'd be swingers. It's a totally different kind of lifestyle thing. What you guys set up is very specific. And most of the time, it's enough for the guy. This is what he likes. He gets plenty of variety. I mean, think about all the shit that you do with him and what he gets. And it's not like he's being starved of any of his fantasies. I mean, he gets, he gets a fist you watch you doing DVP. You allow anal. You see different guys. You go to a sex club with them. I mean, you know, he's got a lot of variety going down. It's not like he's getting the short end of the stick. This is what he's into too. Yeah. Yeah, definitely. And yeah, I've been even really consider doing it with another woman. Yeah. That's okay. What are the stuff that you're looking forward to next and stuff that you just can't wait to do? I mean, you guys have been so hardcore so quickly. What's left? I don't know. Honestly, I just want to fuck so many different men. I want to fuck every man. Okay. You're like insatiable. Yeah. I just want to, yeah, just every man is different. And I want to, I want to experience that. I want to experience everything. So, but yeah, more three times again. I'm definitely gang bangs again. This just, it honestly feels like there's just not enough time to do everything that we want to do. So I don't think there's a fear of like ever getting boring. Just when can we fit this in? This time does take by so quickly. And yeah. Yeah. Of course. And it's interesting to me because you're just like you like the variety in men. I mean, and that you're not so specific. Oh, they have to be this age or a fit or whatever. I mean, it sounds like you're down for all different types of guys. Like you want to experience it all. Like any age, any size, any shape, like you're just down. Yeah, honestly, any age except it's the two young or that's kind of grim. Yeah, right. Nothing illegal. No, like even like in the 20s, it's a bit like, oh, yeah, they seem so young. So say mid 20s up. Absolutely fine. Don't care what they look like or does and any size, yeah, just every guy fucks differently, I suppose. There are the kind of other rules that you have. I know that it was only like you don't really see people more than ones really that much. It sounds like you don't even care too. But and also no solo stuff, right? Is there is like kissing on the table? Do you have any rules around that? So you know, kissing's fine like when we're in meats and stuff because I don't know. It's like a natural part of having sex. I think in this rotex. So yeah, kissing's fine. And yeah, I would both quite like that. To be honest, I could probably see some of these people down the street that I've had sex with and not even realise. Okay, so funny. I'm going to be sure. It's just crazy. I just don't care to memorize what they look like. I don't. Yeah, there's some sort of detachment there when it comes to them. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah, they're really like these disposable things to me. And just right. And your religion is really with Rob. And when you're reclaiming him, you're they're present with him. So all these other guys, it's just they're fulfilling your fantasies. And listen, I'm sure they don't give a fuck whether or use to see that know who they are either. It's probably their the best case scenario. You don't need. Yeah. Yeah, there's no mess or anything. It's just, yeah, just ideally not the same guy twice, but we don't have a issue of getting like invites and stuff on the fab, but I don't manage it. I never look at it. So yeah, there's always this plenty of choice. Like why limit yourself? Yeah, yeah, yeah, it's interesting. Well, a little literally, I mean, listen, a lot of people, I don't think they consider it limiting themselves. They see it differently. They're very specific about what they're into. I once had and I made an audiogram out of it because I loved the little convo, but it was like this very strict orthodox Jewish couple who decided to start swinging. It was very, you know, sort of hardcore of them. And like right in the beginning, he said to her, like, how should we be? Should we be selective or should we be like slutty? And she was like, let's be fucking slutty. She didn't care either. I mean, I got a high five women like that because it's not the norm. So when you be someone that says like you, I don't care what they look like. It's like kind of like refreshing because it's so not typical, but everybody's different. And that's what's interesting. And I think what's most important, like I said before, is that you honor yourself and do what makes you feel comfortable. Whatever that is, it doesn't matter if it's not the way someone else rolls. It's how you do. You guys know what works for you. And that's all that matters. For sure. But it makes perfect sense to me like this way of thinking. Yeah, it makes perfect sense. Because it's not like, you don't want to be doing things that don't make that make sense for him, but not for you when you're doing it to please him. This is it's your choice. And it's how you how it works for you the best. And everybody's different. And to me, my favorite saying is no myself, just honor it. And I love that you say sorry, but like I wouldn't feel comfortable. And I'd be jealous. And that's the truth of your situation with him with women. And that's where you draw the line. And that's cool because that's who you are. And that's how you feel. And I think a lot of times. And I don't get a lot of the couples who are doing it to please other people. I don't think, right? But I know that there's so many probably out there that are doing things because the other partner wants it. And they are doing things that maybe they don't feel right about because they want to please the other partner. And that's never a good thing because then you're really like I said, twisting yourself into a pretzel. And that's not comfortable. Now listen, I have a page on where you guys are going to send me some anonymous picks of your guys. Could you send me anonymous picks of your guys for my Patreon? Yeah, of course you can. Yeah, yeah, yeah. So sexy picks for me are rated. But I'm also going to give you free access to my discord to go in and talk to my listeners there. You could post whatever you want. Do you want to give out your Reddit or anything? Do you have anything you want to promote? I don't even know. No, not really. Don't have to write it anymore. It's the point list. Well, you can get some adulation on my discord. I know you like that. Okay. You like I admire I'm going to give you free access or Rob's probably going to go on there because he sounds like he does all the work. You're just showing me the good stuff. Yeah, yeah, yeah, exactly. He'll go on there and be like, oh, baby, you're hot pick. Got this many likes. Listen, all these guys are drooling over you and you'll get off on it. But, you know, you'll be giving free access to my discord. There's I think over 1600 people on there now. You could go in there and post whatever you want. I don't get involved there, but that's like a whole community of people. It's pretty x rated there so Rob could go on there. You could go on there and do whatever you want. But thanks so much for calling in and tell Rob, thank you too. My audience is going to fucking love you, Tia. I love your specific rules and regulations and the way you roll because like I said, it's not common. You know, it's pretty unique, but that's what I love about people. Yeah, I guess it is. Yeah, I think I'm really lucky to have met someone who's so compatible with me. Yeah, I think it was great that you went into this this total opposite. I mean, you really the pendulum really swung the other way for you. You went from like a sexless marriage into like, oh my god, what you're fucking doing now is super interesting. So thanks so much for calling in. I love your guy story and your episode will be out soon. So text me those picks ASAP. Okay, we'll do. All right, thank you guys. Tell Rob, thank you too. Okay. Okay, bye, Tia. Bye, everyone. 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