692- Mary was Into Swinging and she Got her New Boyfriend George Into it Too

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why I get her story separate because she came into that relationship with the backstory which is fucking fascinating George talks about meeting Mary and when she brought up that she had this past history of being in the lifestyle and then there are a couple of experiences that they had together he gets in detail about that how he felt when she told him when she told him and then their experiences he goes into details of those experience one of them was a gangbang I'm like I call that a gangbang she actually when I talked to her she calls it a gangbang too it definitely was when he talks all about that good stuff how he felt what exactly what went down and how he feels about being in the lifestyle with his girl then Mary comes on and I get her whole backstory her backstory is fascinating all I knew before I got on the phone with her was that she was a 25 year old virgin who got into the lifestyle with the first guy she met went and I'm like how the fuck does that happen my first question to her was why were you a virgin still at 25 her answer is fascinating it made sense when she told me I'm not gonna tell you right now I'm not gonna give it all away in that episode but you might see it in the description if you don't want to spoiler alert don't read the description but when she explained why it like I said it definitely made sense she was older when she lost a virginity and it was hilarious the way she lost it because she was one of those people that when she did get into having sex she had weird rules and regulations about it so really she went in having anal first and not vaginal but once she was in she was fully in because the first guy she met like I said was this guy that was in the lifestyle he was very honest to her about it straight up from the beginning not only that was in the lifestyle but that he was with other women so she always had clear boundaries of what this relationship was with him and she was down to take that ride she looked at it as like an exploration and boy did she explore with him I mean they got into BDSM and they got hardcore into house parties and she went to a lot of house parties they did all kinds of things she was totally open to it he taught her out of squirt we talk about that how that came up she got into BDSM she talks about how she would have never thought she would like pain and she'd be able to turn it into pleasure but she did and she talks about all their experiences and how that relationship worked and it was different than George and that that guy she was always able to keep her distance because she knew he was very very into the lifestyle and that was something she didn't want to ever totally get into and that's why she has some moderation with George and then she does go into explaining the birthday present that she got George which was his first experience in the lifestyle that time she had a gang bang that was his birthday present okay that's what she gave him she explains that time as well as the second time they've just been to clubs together she's still looking for house parties because she likes house parties her whole story is fascinating and interesting so I'm going to get right to it and be right back on with George and Mary and they did send me picks and those are over on patreon anonymous pecs if you want to see them patreon.com slash strictly on his podcast I'm going to be right back on with George and Mary hi George welcome to the strictly on his podcast how are you today I'm doing great Kathy how are you I'm good so listen I'm gonna I'm gonna do something that I do I've done before where I'm gonna talk to you first George you're one person in a couple you have a girlfriend you guys are in the lifestyle you just started she's the one that got you into it she's the one who was in the lifestyle already when you met her she was already in it she went she's very interesting and we're gonna talk to her too halfway through this episode we're gonna get her on the call after I get the backstory from you and she's gonna talk about her story because she's a girl that like went from being a virgin till she was kind of old if you ask me I was kind of slutty and left my lost my virginity when I was really young she loses her virginity and boom first guy gets her into the lifestyle so she's got that backstory and then she got you into it so I'm gonna talk to you first and just everyone needs to stay tuned because after I hear from you Mary's also gonna be on this call so George I know that one of the first things you said in the email was that you guys are an interracial couple how did you guys meet tell me that story so unfortunately I don't want to say unfortunately but so we got online well on the data dating apps so everyone does it is what it is so dated everything's going I think it's going great and everything's normal whatever and yeah we're having some people talk and naturally you start talking about your experiences x's what have you yeah and yeah the lifestyle comes up and I think maybe I've heard of maybe I've heard of it before but didn't really think of I don't know just never really put one to one together and so to kind of hear that yeah my partner I was from into the lifestyles like okay that he didn't really know yeah it didn't really know what to do with that but I knew the bad George on my shoulder was hey we need to explore this and can I ask you a question how long into your dating did she tell you that because that is always kind of like what is that sweet spot when is the the correct time to start really letting your freak flag fly with someone I can't I would say about six nine months oh a long time yeah yeah wasn't early wasn't a two but yeah yeah so definitely we had had built up trust and love for each other so yeah so still she tells me everything and was her first and so that was that alone was intriguing right so then there's parties and there's there's clubs and I'm just I'm kind of turned doing but the same time like am I allowed to be turned doing is this is this okay is this normal like you're kind of like wrestling with all your thoughts in your head yeah but but I was definitely I'm still a man right so I'm definitely intrigued definitely want to see what to see what the hype was all about and again I think what is it was first brought up to be Kathy nothing really transpired right nothing happened um it was actually if you want me to lean into where I can yeah so actually what happened was for my birthday she took me out and it was a club and to come to find out it was a yeah it was this room's club so that was my first experience yeah yeah let me ask you this did you guys have conversations about what you were going to do what you were going to not do were there any kind of rules or regulations and then the other thing I'd want to know is did you were you nervous of how you'd feel like if you guys were going to swap or do anything like that so the great question so we never really talked about rules okay I think we probably if anything if anything we probably said no kissing but ironically Mary was open to the kissing like hey what happens that happens it is what it is so at that so I'm I'm pretty more I'm more of a pleaser right I want to make sure my partner is having at the time happy and joining themselves so pretty much whatever if she's happy I'm happy but I also know my partner in a sense of hey it's one thing if you're playing with a boyfriend but it's another thing if you're playing with someone who you really really care about so I was I wanted to kind of guard her heart too but then the bad George was like hey man we need to see what's going on we need to check this out so as far as rules I believe budget just a kissing but that was kind of one of those things like hey if it happens it happens it is what it is I forget what was your second oh what were you gonna do were you going to do full swaps or anything did you know how far you were going to go or did you think you just feel it out when you got there I think we were just going to steal out what we got there but I think I also told her like hey look I'm not the one just to kind of you know go somewhere and not have fun I'm I'm it sounds amazing right it sounds like a free for all so hey what's what but in my head which I didn't tell her I wanted I wanted to kind of watch her I didn't want to my first experience and I'm having sex with another woman so I kind of wanted to hurt the lead the way do you get turned on by what you hear I know I do and that's why I love Dipsy stories Dipsy stories is an app full of hundreds of short sexy audio stories no matter what you're into or what turns you on Dipsy has something for you whether you want straight stories or queer stories three sums or more some stories you're gonna find it on Dipsy they have hundreds of stories to choose from and they're they're constantly releasing new content okay so there is always something new to explore they also have sleep stories wellness sessions and written stories if you want to read something hot and they also have my favorite feature they're jump to the action button so if you're really horny and you want to get right to it you just press a button and it's going to take you right to where the action starts so what are you waiting for go get Dipsy and for listeners of this show Dipsy is offering an extended 30 day free trial when you go to Dipsy Stories.com slash strictly a non that's 30 days of full access for free when you go to D-I-P-S-E-A stories.com slash strictly a non Dipsy stories.com slash strictly a non go there now to get 30 days of free access or just go to the description and click on the link yeah you want to sit back and watch while you got comfortable I that makes sense exactly yeah that makes sense okay so you get to the club so it's your birthday all the stars in line like you say and she's got your fucking girlfriend's giving you a great present she's let's go to a sex club listen listen Kathy so at the it's two floors two levels of recovery so the prime level is a dance floor I believe in a strip of floor there there's B-I-L-B whatever and then there's upstairs so now upstairs there's lockers and then there's a big shower see through glass so everyone can see me there and then there's individual rooms or whatever so then you got the porn on the TV's so I'm like I'm a kid in the canister right I'm like yo this is this is this is like eyes wide shut it's great I'm all in yeah so so we want that downstairs having to put drinks whatever whatever don't really see any couples that kind of want to play with or whatever's but let's do it early now Mary she's the one if the party's that nine to two maybe still at nine 15 I'm like Mary we can't we can't get this early right you got to kind of get there in the middle but I've got to take my battles so so we're there early whatever kind of feeling an out and after after a few drinks I'm like hey let's just go upstairs let's just go upstairs let's see what's going on so we go upstairs there's I don't see a hound dogs but there's like a row of guys real sitting down like just yeah just sitting down they just they're talking but they're like you know what's going on right so it's like all right this is different but okay so we walk into into one of the rooms close the door we start getting busy she's giving me head I'm getting excited because I know I see they're outside the door so I can't remember who opened the door but I believe of course you may might see something different I believe I actually I said hey do you want to open the door Mary Kathy she opens the door and it's like a free fall I mean you got guys you running over each other I mean everyone's coming in like an orgy oh my good Mary big orgy so let's say four guys might be five let's say four guys come in and she's going to town right she's sucking one off she's sucking another one that's oh my goodness your wife off that ass so again I have so much going through my head right now right what's going and knowing George how here with what's going oh what are you doing here right are you turned on now are you turned on oh little hey listen little George was he was ready okay let's go yeah so it was it was it was amazing so so anyways she's she's having fun I think I think five minutes into a Kathy she's squirting over it on the bed oh my goodness it's it is amazing she's back in her glory right she's known as before yeah and by the way that's why she didn't give a shit about kissing because it's everyone's typically a lot of people have that rule in the beginning and she was probably going to tell me that her and her guy did it at first but it's always the first one to go out and nobody that's in the lifestyle for a long time ever keeps that rule that's never one that's still there years later that's why she was like who gives a fuck because she's been there on that right yeah so anyway so wait so she's how many guys are in there that she's hanging out with Kathy there's there's at least five oh my goodness maybe it's a game then could we call it a game thing hey I mean so here's the funny part yeah so now so there's a security guard he walks around whatever so security guard walks by the room and goes hey there's too many guys in here right too many guys in here this this room is for about two or three people you can't you can't six or seven yeah so so I think and I never admit it to this so I'm definitely gonna deny this even those tapes so I believe I close the door I believe Luna George was so excited hey man he's wearing an operate I believe I close the door oh my god there was so many guys there was so many guys there that he thought it was one of the other guys who closed the door right it was me yeah but so now he opens up he's been on the door open the door so he finally comes in there he's everyone out everyone out so now it's just me and Mary so Mary's hair's all messed up so so now we hey close the door now me and Mary we go to town we finish fucking over there then didn't leave Kathy had to believe we have sex again in the car have sex again at the hotel I mean that night yeah my Kathy the reclaiming I was living up listen it it was like I was living in an appornal scene it was amazing I love your like regular person view of things because really this is like you had never done anything like this and you're older than her she's younger than you right she's 32 how old are you again right 36 36 okay cool so you would never been with a girl that was into any of this kind of stuff so this was your first experience and so the reclaiming is like everybody talks about like unbelievable yes yes it was I mean the reclaiming like that was that was amazing so definitely had fun great experience and then actually it took about a probably another year until we played again so that that was another experience so it was it was definitely definitely fun but let me ask you a question before we get to that second experience and then we're gonna get and then we're gonna get Mary on and get her back story so after that night it was in the heat of passion you're just really horny you feel one way and then sometimes after you lose your erection and your back reality might feel another way did you ever at any point after that first experience this is your first time in your whole life that you see your girl with other guys did you have any kind of mixed feelings about it or was it all just wow I'm totally okay with that's like can't be whole hardly yeah that's great anything like like can't be honestly like I'll be talking shit as oh yeah you miss all those guys and like we're actually like playing with each yeah can't be so no actually as a guy we're already warning or whatever so this was this was one of my allies okay all right let's go yeah but the the reason why I ask is because I think and I wonder if I was talking to George before he met Mary and before you ever did this and I was your friend and we were just having a cup of coffee and I was like George do you think you could ever watch your girl fucking other guy my friend just did that or something like because you might have said no way like I could never because a lot of guys I think regular guys that's what's so interesting about you is you're just this regular guy that I lived in the vanilla world in comes Mary she gets you into the lifestyle takes you out and boom first night like all this shit is going down and you're totally okay with it but I wonder would would you have thought you would be okay because I don't think that most guys even though they're so super horny right we all know guys think with their dicks they're it's not like they're all like totally uh down to watch their girl fucking other guy I mean it seems like a big king because I have so many episodes on it but I think a lot of guys really would be very jealous and would never want their girl fucking another guy it's a truly street though right so there's there's the one side of the street where they will never admit to it right they're not like I'm not from it to whatever that's that sounds that sounds that sounds crazy right so you have that right right right right so you have that you have that side you don't have actually this is like there's a lot of layers here right then you also have you know so like we play like an hour actually like two hours away I'm like hey look if we're doing this like I need to be I need to be like you know hours away or whatever because you know last thing I want to do is walk in somewhere and I see so up like no that's gonna be an awkwardness to whatever so you have that you have that and then one thing about Mary is if she would ever say hey George this isn't gonna work like I I thought I was cool with it with my boyfriend but you know you're in a different atmosphere I think it's communication and really just making sure your partner is it's okay with it because I know if I would have told Mary hey mmm not really feeling it and then I think also cat I know I'm getting along with it I think also because that first experience was it was kind of it's kind of fast right if the security guard didn't come in there and we're in downtown for an hour yeah I might feel a little bit right so it's kind of it's kind of hard to say oh so because on that first so that first experience it wasn't like you saw her doing a lot you didn't have a lot of time to think about it because that happened fast they got kicked out and then you got to reconnect with her so yeah right right I mean you know she's doing it in the course right so you know it's like guys off whatever it wasn't like their missionary and something sensual I don't think that you need to feel that way I'm just saying that I think that a lot of guys would expect that they would feel that way and it's interesting when they don't and a lot of guys come on and are here to say that they would have totally thought that they thought they they would be jealous watching their girl and so on but it actually did was the opposite they were turned on so now get to your second experience second experience I think we were just it was just one most nights one was only nights and we had it we had a free kid night so whenever whenever you have a free kid night you want to take a band of that so so yeah we go up to you we go out a few hours away we get there there's like a smoke room so we're at the smoke room we're talking to other people asking questions one one couple actually got married and I was like this is again I'm just my mind is blowing okay people get married this is this is this is out there so I had a couple drinks whatever I had a smoke go up we go upstairs now this one that's one was beautiful you go upstairs seems set up different beds but everything's wide open though everything's wide open so as you go upstairs there's I want to see four beds in this one area so three of the beds are again occupied right you got two couple three of the couples you know going downtown but this having fun so a little little George is like all right hey let's go it's time it's time to put in some work um so yeah lay Mary down start eating her out she's I mean she's left for the pennies I mean it was just it was awesome so now the couples see us and I want to say we're probably the youngest ones there so they start joining so I back out Kathy and then I want to watch the guys play with Mary now then one of the wives from the guys she grabs me she grabs me to the other bed or whatever let's not say oh man here here it is this is God testing me so yeah Mary's on one bed I'm with the other bed and yeah yeah we're we're we're fucking and in my head I was like man I will see how this goes but it was awesome now the funny part was I was it I wasn't fully into it with the other female so that kind of took a little fun out of it so then I joined back reconnected reclaimed with Mary so now now you know fuck Mary whatever now one of the guys he's about to come I said hey come on my face come on my face never again bad George I'm a bad George I get in trouble bad George that George is like yeah my shoulder and so he finishes on her face and everything I mean Kathy again amazing so I think yeah then I finish we get the club Kathy then around the corner we fuck some more in the in a car I think there's even people walking by so yeah I think yeah yeah that's bad George Kathy bad George well there's nothing bad about it that's the greatest thing about when you're doing something like this with somebody that you care about you're in a committed relationship she's down for it you're down for it you guys are doing this for the right reason you're in it together that's the way to do yeah nothing bad your girls your girls open to it and interested in it I mean how long have you guys been together so far now four years oh four years right so you guys been together for a long time I mean did it would you say it's strengthened your relationship your sex life I mean that's what a lot of people say I made your sex life better because you could refer back to those scenes now well I guess because we could talk about those scenes right but but but I would say no because again our sex life that's always been oh my goodness I mean it has always been anywhere anytime so but having another experience I think that has definitely definitely something to talk about so no definitely it's been it's been it's been arrived definitely arrived right that's interesting because you always had a good sex life anyway so it's not like this is doing anything more just an extension of that now do you plan on going back I mean what are your guys plans we're gonna get married on now but what are your future plans I mean are you down to go back are you into it oh yeah almost definitely so I think so one thing that Mary's into is the whole tying up and and things things of that nature so we want to do more just different things so something was that is that BDSM something like that so more bondage play so we've done clubs now Mary she she's done house parties so we want to try different things we're on we're on reddit we're on what's the other one fat live Mary she's she has our only fans but believe it not it's actually hard to kind of find not only single guys but even couples sometimes you get riddles in this year so we're very of course that's my heart so I'm very protective of her so once I feel like a red flag I'm like yeah now we're not gonna do that so so yeah we just do the clothes but no definitely definitely open to it or I mean we we've even looked at some of my finger cruises things of that nature so yeah oh my god we are getting into the busiest time of the year right from now till December things fly fucking by okay so who has time to cook well with factor America's number one ready to eat meal kit you 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off or just go to the description and click on the link hey i'm giving you an aura funky cat that's a lot of new electric author speak with me is it warm i'm doing it for you you're hungry i'm looking for a restaurant for you i'm aura funky cat that's a lot of new electric author step one test me now for a short time 149 euros in monat least all info's under aura minus motor point de slash lesing yeah i love it you have a long future ahead of you but what's interesting and why we're going to get your girl on is because she does have a video some experience with her other guy in that first guy that she was in the lifestyle so we're going to get her on now and i'm going to get her whole backstory and get this story from her perspective so thanks george and little george for coming on the show yeah big george a little george let's get her on thanks for calling in and then and now thanks for passing me on to marie bye george hi marie welcome to the strictly anonymous podcast i just talked to your guy george i'm happy thanks for having us or talking to him and now talking to me yeah this is fun listen because you had a little backstory going on i was like i'm going to talk to marie separately and we always leave the girl for last because that's who my listeners love to hear from and it's interesting because you have a backstory i mean you and george just you guys have been together for a while and you did open up your relationship and you guys jumped into the lifestyle you've had a couple experiences he went through those we'll talk about those as well you'll tell me that story too but i know what was interesting about you what he put in the emo was like yeah i have this girlfriend she's like 32 but when she was 25 she lost her virginity and then got into the lifestyle like so two things right there stood out to me like a 25 is pretty late to lose your virginity and then to go straight from being a virgin in the lifestyle i love that complete turnaround it's just i'm like i need to hear i need to hear that story yeah i need to talk to marie separately so we'll eventually get to the point where you meet george and you guys get into the lifestyle but tell me first of all why were you still a virgin at 25 i grew up in a conservative family my childhood and rearing i was homeschooled from kindergarten to college and then in high school i would take you know um you could actually start college in high school so i took some college courses in high school i went to a college locally so i commuted so i work and commuted and that kept me so busy that and i was in nursing school so that kept me so busy that i didn't have time to even think about dating i was still living at home and so i graduated and got my job i was like okay it's time to move out so move down and i was like all right well now like i need to start dating i haven't done this before so you go to the apps go to all dating apps and start swiping and then that's when i met i guess my first study boyfriend i guess and he was always very upfront about what he liked his lifestyle etc etc and i was like okay well i can't i don't know too much about this like basically i know nothing yeah that's crazy so he was straight up right from the beginning listen i'm in the lifestyle i go to swingers call that kind of a thing he explained to you yep yep 100% he's i love unicorns i want to hear all i just go out and do my thing i'm like well that's a lot and no i don't want to hear all but you seem like fun so we'll keep hanging out let me ask you this because you did live in this world where you're homeschooled and everything was it as far as sex is concerned and masturbation and porn did you have any kind of experience you just sort of being curious on your own or did you know nothing yeah you did okay so i would because the information given to me was so limited i did get curious yeah as i got older so i did watch porn the whole masturbation i didn't do that until i moved out because i really didn't know what i'm doing wow that's so interesting that i didn't start until after i had moved out wow maybe homes maybe if you really want to control your your kids homeschooling is the way to do it i mean she you really didn't know what the fuck was going on you didn't know anything about the outside world not even how to jerk off yeah no and i would get obviously excited and turned off yeah yeah i'm sharing porn like it wasn't like i was like ew of course yeah i was excited i was turned on but yeah i guess not enough to figure it out myself want to do it myself did you know what to kind of do with what i was feeling okay well like i'm feeling kind of excited but what do i do now um and do you remember that first time when you moved out that you went to town on yourself i mean like how did that happen yeah well i bought a toy because i'm like i don't like when my fingers like no i need i need something more just because that's kind of what i was watching a porn yeah yeah you had a you had a had a guy or they had a toy okay well i need something so yeah so i got a toy and i had to say i it was it was interesting even now i it's fine because i was actually talking to George about this recently like getting myself off is a as it's limiting to me i need more than that but yeah so started going out with this guy um i think i probably he probably saw me as a little bit of a challenge because hey she's a some schoolgirl that knows nothing and all right and he's obviously on a hundred so i think he definitely saw out of me as a little bit of a challenge and what did you think about him considering he was a guy that was on the opposite end of the spectrum were you little nervous or intimidated or were you excited and curious what how did you feel about him i was very comfortable like he made me feel very comfortable very curious it didn't feel pressured yeah interesting okay he was just like just very straight forward and open about it and it was more like having a conversation it wasn't like he was trying to hide it to get me into it or force me it was just like hey this is what i do and he was you know okay hanging out with me without doing anything yeah yeah so i was like okay sure yeah we'll hang out and i also knew i also appreciated him being honest from the beginning because they also knew that honestly i wasn't the only the only person he was seeing so i think for me it was like okay like i can view you as a friend i can experience new things with you but i'm also not afraid of falling head over heels for you because those are certain things that i don't want in a permanent relationship right so it was more of exploring i guess i kind of viewed as more of an exploration with him yeah what a fucking exploration you brought on your first i kind of feel bad i mean your poor mom here she was hiding you from the world all this time which she didn't know as you'd go the opposite oh my god so the way i was raised and mentally i was like okay well for genetics that's tied to a certain spot you don't let anybody go there yeah so it's okay well there's the back door that doesn't count oh my god i love people like you it's the most twisted fucking thing i've ever heard if you fuck me in my pussy hall that is against god's law but you could fuck me in the ass you know he doesn't care about that so yeah so explored that first i don't know maybe yeah yeah that it may be simultaneous with oral i guess so you know yeah and then went the whole way several visits time months later and then once that cherry happened perhaps then it was like okay well what else do we want to do so we did things by ourselves with the tying up and um spanking or like whips and stuff like that and then we wanted to he he wanted to introduce me to the clubs yeah and i was open i was like okay like i can go and i want to feel comfortable with just watching and i felt comfortable i didn't feel pressured if we went that's okay yeah i'm just a curious i'll never say i'll never say never but i'm open to seeing and trying new things as long as i feel like i can say no and be hurt yeah totally so then COVID came and all the clubs shut down oh no and we never made it to a club i'm like oh you've got me like all interested all excited like i want to i don't know me and see other people that do this like you're in this lifestyle that you're telling me to be out but i really haven't seen you in this lifestyle this is always just been us so he found a house party oh okay yeah so found a house party beautiful big house a couple of owner and live there and they open up their house i think was like once a month to these swimmer parties and i was like okay sure i guess it's the same difference whatever so we did that and i really liked it were you nervous i i was i was nervous the first time we went i kind of planned it where i had to work the next day mm-hmm so i'm like hey i'll come see what's going on but i can't stay like really late because i have to go to work the next day right you give yourself an act yeah so that was my out so i was able to go and observe and just kind of sit and chill and that's that's actually what i really enjoyed i enjoyed all these people there just doing what they wanted to do they didn't care about anybody else all down to earth super sweet and genuine and welcoming because they're all doing the same thing it just felt very comfortable and very welcoming it was couples you had single females there was only a couple i mean that literally single man they really tried to limit the single man yeah that's um exactly so yeah so i was able to observe and he went off and he did his own thing he would come back and check on me we did a little bit of playing just us so whatever while i was there mm-hmm and i think because i knew that pay this is his scene yeah i was okay with him just going off and playing because i'm like that's what he does like i he's always been open about that so i was okay in the in the scenarios with him yeah for him just going off and doing his thing i didn't feel comfortable going off and doing my thing just because i still felt new to it so we went to quite a few i would say at least have a i don't know i maybe half a dozen a handful of them together and each experience was different it was nice because you would see a lot of familiar faces which i mean you'd be more comfortable yeah and then like hey i'll see you next time and we'll do something next time they also had some different themes whether it was what different outfits were or they would have almost like a different lesson somebody presenting something like they had somebody presenting spanking one time oh interesting do that in a sensual appropriate way and i think they had somebody doing like different times one time so it was just kind of a way to kind of get everybody you know involved so yeah so that was kind of my introduction go though did you ever okay i need to know did you ever hook up with a girl or are you not into that just guys what do you think so we would so at one of the parties we did i guess it was a couple so yes it was another female another male so kind of i guess had a little bit of a line going up so i did do some eating out a little bit which was different obviously a completely different experience uh-huh so yeah so no that was fun that was one experience that i had with a with another female yeah but so and but besides that did you do swapping i mean how far into it did you get you just we did we did yeah yeah no we did what we did full swap i was okay i was basically okay doing anything as long as you as long as he was in the room yeah so full swap yeah so full swap i probably had another somebody else like me then the girl so then when we had when we were playing with the couples that's when i got kind of tried it out with the girl so that was that was something fun different toys always a lot of toys so playing um well he mentioned that you were squirting in one of his episodes that he talked about so when did you learn how to squirt you're this girl that didn't even jerk off till you're like 25 like how did you learn how to squirt i'm 54 and still can't i'm so jealous tell me how yeah so i learned first with him using a toy and now i can do it without using a toy wow i feel like because you never really wired yourself in any way because you didn't really do anything that you were just totally open to whatever and because i think that's how we do wire ourselves our first couple experiences or what we're doing by ourselves a lot of times were all of our experiences are with ourselves because everyone's like jerk it off because they're too young to go out and really do think but because you didn't have any of that you were just so open that i feel like oh first guy comes in he can make you squirt because you didn't know anything else i don't know yeah really didn't i didn't know i feel like i was kind of like a sponge yeah i was always like i think why i always had a problem is because when i was little i found my clip by accident i swear there was i had a pencil in my hand and it went down there and it touched it and this whole crazy thing happened i'm like what the fuck was that and then of course i kept doing it and i always i didn't know i had another hole so i always play with my clip and so i wired myself so much into a literal orgasm that it was way harder for me to know oh how to get off on something being in a night and i think that that's what happens you do wire yourself certain ways but you were so unwired because you were like so fresh and untouched that he was able to get in there and just really work your body because you didn't really you weren't so fixated on your clip or like i was because you were doing that yeah no that makes yeah that makes complete sense like i was very open yeah to basically anything that he would do and it would be kind of surprising what my body could do or would do because they didn't know to not do it not go there yeah i was another thing with like more the bds i'm saying it was like i can really let myself go down the line of pain yeah interesting which is interesting because if you would say that be like no like i don't like pain but if you let yourself mentally get into that place it's it can be like amazing what's a different type completely yeah it's so crazy your story and you're so interesting to me because really you set the perfect stage by being a virgin up until your 25 for like you said for all these things to be easy for you to accomplish and go there because you were in experience and then you meet this first guy it's kind of crazy who's so open and i love that you were open to it and it's so great that he was open to you that you could trust him to really go and explore all of this stuff with him he really he did help you right i mean yeah no 100 percent like and that's the thing like i knew just based on i knew that he was in this life style 100 percent yeah extent that he was as like i don't want that as like my life partner yeah but we're great friends and i trust when i feel comfortable with you this is kind of like a great setup because i don't get mad at it or i didn't get mad at him when he would go off and do something because like mentally already had things compartmentalized so it's like okay great like i can go and enjoy these things as i'm not like worried about him yeah yeah and he he had told you he was with other people from the gecko so you never had unrealistic expectations of the relationship did you ever because you were with him for a while did you ever wind up copying feelings for him that were more so than just oh you're my buddy that's helping me explore things yeah i mean that i mean that i mean that that i mean i would say that that definitely yes short answer yes because i mean that's also my first yeah that's why i think yeah right about your first so no there's definitely feelings and caring for sure and then now after all of that playing in everything you was George the first person you met after him or did you date a while before you met George no no it would have been George okay so you leave this guy you guys break up what happened was it just like you went your separate ways yeah it wasn't even anything yeah it wasn't anything like so severe it was just kind of like a growing up car he got busy i got busy then George kind of came into the picture and he was like okay i feel like we're kind of with George now so he was so rich i don't kind of like feel like yeah so with George and he was very respectful and all of that so it's just more of kind of a growing apart type thing because no if i'm with somebody i obviously wasn't going to go play yeah yeah yeah no were you were free to tell George i mean because here you are this girl that has this past that's pretty hardcore i mean i you have to wonder i one of the first questions i asked George is like how long into your relationship with her did she tell you because you know some guys would react some yeah totally some guys would react negatively you know you really don't know were you nervous to tell him i was um wasn't sure what he might think of me of course and then also wasn't sure again like how he felt because okay well i don't want him to just think that i'm some girl we can go out and party with not just your little unicorn either like i want to make sure that he was into me and that we had our relationship and that we were good and that we were what each other wanted right because wasn't a lot of guys actually would take that kind of information and take it to the extreme you don't know right how someone wrote in a guy i'll think oh great she wants a fun here we go i was one of the three cells yeah let's do this every day and before you know it they're rolling like the other guy but you knew that that you that's not what you wanted so yeah that's scary so what i know he told me you didn't bring it up for a really long time right yeah i mean i would say at least six nine months two a year i was like yeah she knew she had you like that's she waited to make sure you were locked in loved her can't go anywhere now she's going to tell you and so what did you say to him and how did he react do you remember i wish it was hello tough when they just talking about different experiences i mean we've always had great sexual interactions experience like that is not something that's been lacking and it's something that we feel open to kind of talk about what do you enjoy or yeah he's always open about the poor knee watches so we're like oh you were at home and you work play so you know i had a i had to watch a movie while you were on it i would have oh what did you watch so we always had different to say that and then i think i just brought up like yeah i went to a house party before and he's like what's that yeah just a bunch of people and it's really nice but you know there's some playing involved oh my god so that i mean his his year it's pretty great up and yeah he wanted to know everything and then started looking up everything about well wait how we're gonna do this now too um and i was i felt since like he had never done anything never three some never a party whatever which i think part of me may be not easily thought that well don't like all guys at some point do something because like they're all that's all they think about yeah yeah they just don't have it's is the problem is girls the problem is the girls don't want to do that's the problem yeah so like he was kind of like no like i've never done anything oh so then i was like well i feel like you need to i amazingly enough surprisingly enough and not all these experiences that you haven't as a guy as well i feel like i kind of owe it to you to at least try it yeah amazing so yeah so he started looking up different things that's like i don't want to just meet with somebody random over the end or not i don't want to just go find a guy in a hotel room no like i would rather find a house party because that's what i know or we could try like a club yeah is why i feel like it's open we can observe we can lead i want to make sure that we're good to kind of do whatever so he he was kind of not pushing like it didn't feel pressure but he would bring it up regularly i'm like okay like i need to do this all right you know he's sending me legs like hey i saw this i was listening to this yeah he was smart he was not going to miss this window of opportunity okay wait i got a green light yeah i'm gonna make this shit happen okay i don't want that to expire yeah yeah yeah so finally it was his birthday and i'm like oh my goodness what do i get this guy like year before we had gone on vacation out to la and i was like we can't go away this year when am i going to do it i was like ah i can sketch i can plan for us to go to a party yeah and surprise them so this is birthday whatever i'm like here we're going here and i just gave him the address and we just pulled up to the club wow and i think he was i think he was pretty shocked that i actually did that yeah he got him to a party yeah that's crazy that was the perfect gift yeah so and that's what he said he's like that's one of my best gifts i'm like there we go i did it and it was different for me too i had never actually done the club and it was kind of he's looking to me to be like the experience one and i'm like oh yeah i did it but also this is a little bit different too so we wound up having an amazing night we wound up playing we wound up having others play with us so i was really glad with how the night turned out yeah he told that's when he talked about you squirting oh she was squirting all over all these guys came in i mean were you happy to be back in that environment was it something that now you could never see yourself living without or is it something that you could give or take yeah it's something that we kind of talked about too because i don't want to go to the extreme that's what we do all we do is party like we have an amazing relationship an amazing sex like without this i just want this to be an addition something we do i don't know what's the month the couple times a year yeah and have amazing time together yeah in other words you're still good yeah he explained that because i said do you feel like it made you guys a relationship closer or any different he's like no not at all because we always have the best sex ever and he kind of um you know explained it exactly like what you did and i think that's smart it makes sense yeah but it is interesting because it is like for me and everybody probably has a different experience but for me it's like mentally like you can just like all right i'm in this space i'm in this environment and it's just like kind of like letting yourself go and it's kind of liberating as you know what i'm here i'm here to have a good time yeah as long as he's good and i'm good we're good yeah we're just gonna do you know do what we want to do yeah he mentioned something he made a joke about oh little george doing this bad stuff i'm like what's great about when you do like very naughty things with somebody that you're very close with it's not like naughty naughty you know what i mean it's like you could be dirty and all that stuff but when you're with you're doing it with someone that you really care about and it's not some stranger in an alleyway there's no darkness to it you know what i mean that's what i think and i so i think that that's great i mean how does like little nary that was homeschooled in a virgin i mean would you ever believe that this would be in life no no way what about your friends are they does anyone know besides me and all my listeners and george and your last guy and all the people at the parties no no no because it is something i mean i think more people do it but it's so kind of of a lot more people do it than anything you even know yeah i just think nobody would ever guess you know with your background probably that this is where you would be like i even you right i don't know no one hundred percent because yeah even kind of the introduction and exploration for going out with this guy like i never thought that it would be something that i would enjoy and still want to participate in right and it'd be a part of your life and zero kind of jealous you're anything because you do feel differently about george and you did the other guy you're in a real relationship with him and i would say that and that's kind of why i pointed it out with with the other guy like i didn't care when he did his own thing yeah yeah yeah george george just going off without me and doing his own thing that would probably bother me and that's something where i said it was like i don't care if you're all couple swapping you're playing with the girl but like when it's still be in the same space like i want to still be able to the eyes on you yeah yeah that makes sense i know that we're still like experiencing this together right and then you had one other experience right you went to was it a part what was the second experience again i just it was still it was still a club it was a different club i haven't i haven't been able to find a house party yet which i would like to i i'm still one thing to get to one because i do feel like that was my favorite oh it just takes but we did go to another club and it's equally pleasant experience a little bit different but the first time he he didn't play with anybody else i guess i was the one who did most of the playing the first time it turned into a little bit of a gang bang yeah that's what i called it i'm like that's how like a fucking gang bang i want to lose five or six guys yeah and then the second time he was you know we started playing together some more guys came over to reach me and then he was just kind of observing and then a female came in he he interacted with her and i felt okay with that was there i was there so that was good because that was something else new to us yeah yeah i was good and we kind of like talked back where i was like no i was okay because we were still together you did your playing i did my thing and then we came back yeah yeah and did you enjoy was it a turn on to see him with the other woman or just it was just okay and you didn't feel any jealousy i didn't feel any jealousy i think it was a little bit of a turn on because i was like hey i know you're making her feel good because i know how i feel so i was like yeah that's kind of like yeah you enjoy yourself that's like i yeah that's the way guys say they feel about when they're watching their girl that's the pleasure in it and other women have actually said that also about their guy so yeah that makes sense that that's what i've heard a lot i love this story it's so interesting you're a really interesting if people really knew 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